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The “gringo effect” is the reaction a foreign guy gets from girls here in Medellin.It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner.
This has proven to be essential for me when picking up women in Medellin. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to picking up.Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.So I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin.Seeing beautiful women here is so common that Colombian men don’t even turn to look, it’s ridiculous.I’ve been here 5 years and I’m still floored at some of the women in my gym!It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.
Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.
On the street I am usually attracted to women who look as if they are on their way to an office job.
Generally, these women will be dressed formally, but fashionably.
Imagine, our hands are on each other’s bodies before even knowing each other’s names.
More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.
NOTE: I wrote this post about my experience dating women in Medellin back in April of 2013.