Teens might act unhappy about the expectations their parents place on them.Still, they usually understand and need to know that their parents care enough about them to expect certain things such as good grades, acceptable behavior, and sticking to the house rules.
Their peers often become much more important than parents as far as making decisions.Answer the early questions kids have about bodies, such as the differences between boys and girls and where babies come from.But don't overload them with information — just answer their questions.If you don't know the answers, get them from someone who does, like a trusted friend or your pediatrician. You can hear when your child's starting to tell jokes about sex or when attention to personal appearance is increasing.This is a good time to jump in with your own questions such as: A yearly physical exam is a great time to talk about this.A doctor can tell your preadolescent — and you — what to expect in the next few years.
An exam can be a jumping-off point for a good parent/child discussion.
The later you wait to have these talks, the more likely your child will be to form misconceptions or become embarrassed about or afraid of physical and emotional changes.
And the earlier you open the lines of communication, the better your chances of keeping them open through the teen years.
feedings, toddler temper tantrums, and the back-to-school blues.
So why is the word "teenager" causing you so much worry?
If parents have appropriate expectations, teens will likely try to meet them.