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Anyone can utter the right words, but words often aren’t matched by behavior.“Even though my parents are wonderful people, I really didn't feel comfortable living at home, especially because I wasn't working.I knew I needed to make a jump, and [moving abroad] was one of the best decisions I've ever made.” Ultimately, the experience of returning to the nest helped Megan realize how important it was for her to try living in a completely new environment.“Carla,” 32Carla returned to her parents’ home multiple times after college, living there on and off.And, returning to the familial nest wasn’t doing any favors for Megan’s own love life. “To be honest, it was a celibate six months.” Though she did a lot of Tinder dating, most of Meghan’s matches lived far from Jersey, so she wouldn’t end up seeing the guys she went out with more than once or twice.“Friends in the city graciously offered couches and floors, so I was able to crash with them,” she explains.Over the past few years, the percentage of 25-to-34-year-old Americans living with their parents has been at a record high of nearly 15%.
Student debt and difficulty finding a job are sending millennials back home in droves — and though this type of arrangement is certainly easier on the wallet, it can wreak havoc on a young adult’s self-image.
Here’s what they struggled with — and learned — during the experience.“Meghan,” 26Two years ago, Meghan moved back in with her parents in New Jersey in a post-breakup state of shock, not just about being newly single, but also about her post-grad-school job prospects — or lack thereof.
“I applied to about 60 jobs during graduate school,” she recalls.
Our dates were lively and fun, and he was really cute.
It had been ages since I’d felt that way about anyone, and I was so happy and relieved.
You’re here, I know, because you’re holding onto hope by a tiny little thread.