Dating more than one girl at a time
At worst, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak, getting attached to a person who refuses to focus on you. While he’s out with you having coffee, his mind could be on the dinner he had with her last night. I know many people think, It’s okay if he’s dating others besides me.Ever been at a party or a function where someone is talking to you, but at the same time scanning the room looking for someone else to talk to? I can also date multiple people and still make the right choice. Dating multiple people has significantly disabled bachelors and bachelorettes from focusing on the people sitting right in front of them.
So when we do finally find one, we hold on to him with all we’ve got despite the fact that he might not even be that good of a catch.Studies show that too many options actually make it harder to choose.Contrary to expectations, providing more varieties and flavors and choices of a product to consumers is not beneficial to people and does not lead to more sales. When we aren’t focusing on one person at a time, we can lose the most important “sale” of our life!But the more you do it, and the more different kinds of people you do it with, the better you’ll get — and when you do finally meet someone who stands out from the crowd, you’ll be charming as hell. The worst feeling known to man (or woman) is feeling like the one who cares more.Nobody likes being the one waiting at home for the guy to call while he’s out at a bar with his friends.By having multiple apples of your eye to distract you, you really won’t notice if one of them gets distant.
You make more conscious decisions when it comes to getting serious.
Dating multiple guys will really take over your social life, so you’ll spend more time having fun with your life than worrying about his.
You don’t get all wigged out over guys you barely know.
Just last month, I met a cute guy and we went out and had so much fun together. Now it’s been a month and we’ve gone out four times.
The last time I saw him, I asked him if we could define our relationship. I decided that everything was probably okay until yesterday when my brother went to a coffee shop and saw him with another girl.
A graduate of the University of Central Florida, she is a community editor for a local newspaper and spends most of her time trying to convince her dog to cuddle.