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What they want is the situation their friends have who are married to an older man who loves them and is home every night. That’s a subjective question and each person has their own idea of what makes for a ‘beautiful’ woman.
But far more of those young Filipinos are struggling to make ends meet.But overall women here in the Philippines still seek a steady family life of their own.Statistically, a percentage have turned their back on the ‘old ways’ and are total man-sharks.In regard to fidelity, Filipinas prefer an older expat over a younger one as a husband.Too many other Filipinas they know have been burned by young expats under 39 who have gotten what they wanted and moved on a day later.Even so these jobs do not offer the long-term security that most foreigners take for granted such as social security, pensions or medical benefits for a family.
Many of the males are also tied into the rural life, out in the provinces. I’ll repeat, there is nothing wrong in a woman wanting a mate/husband who is financially secure.
This is why they prefer mature men as their first choice even though not all older men are necessarily mature or faithful. Getting to know a GOOD Filipina woman is a process. So it is imperative you make your intentions clear and what sort of time frame you are willing to work with. Sometimes we meet up for lunch on a random basis or catch a movie.. We go ‘dutch’ on the expenses, usually one covers dinner and the other the movie and at the end we go our separate ways home and that’s it.
Now, when speaking of ‘good, decent’ Filipina women.. They are a fervent, passionate, protective and yes.. Be prepared to be loved, adored and cherished perhaps better than you feel you deserve. Here in the Philippines, something as simple as lunch has a whole different twist here.
The managers of these businesses know these lovelies are what brings in the male customers.
Meanwhile the only jobs I’ve seen dominated by men here have been in construction and transportation such as Jeepneys, trikes and motorcycles.
If you’re a man of modest means, just getting by on your pension or social security.. But you need to know what’s-what before you arrive and start charging around like a bull in a china shop interacting with them the way you did with Western or European women.