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In this letter, Beth describes the many ways in which Lessin's "loving correction of the rod" changed her childhood, development, and life as an adult in monumentally negative ways.

My private parts were helplessly exposed as my dad laid his hand on my back.You recommend that parents spank a child who displays a "wrong attitude" by continuing to cry too long after a spanking.The language in your book is much more "sugary" than what I've just written.(My dad spanked me the most, so in my illustration let's assume my father is conducting the Roy Lessin spanking.) My father would explain the reason for the spanking.This was an excruciating process because I had to listen while knowing what was coming.Should just one parent spare their child the kind of pain that I endured at the hands of my parents implementing your spanking recommendations, my pain will have more meaning than it does now.

I want to begin by talking about your spanking approach so that we'll both be using the same language.

When the gruesome pain ended, I would begin to battle with my emotions and my body.

I knew that crying too much could mean that my father would start a Roy Lessin spanking ritual all over again to correct my "wrong attitude." My parents were never concerned about the marks they left on my body. Pulling up my pants was incredibly painful, and so was sitting on my father's lap.

In your book, you describe a process by which a parent performs a spanking on their child.

is to get the child into a good spanking position (when my parents and other adults - such as your wife, Char - spanked me, the ritual involved removing the child's clothing); you recommend bending the child over a bed, or bending a smaller child over the parent's lap. You recommend that parents comfort the child until sufficient time has passed, and then ask the child to stop crying.

But my description does not come close to what it feels like to receive a Roy Lessin spanking.