Living together after divorce dating
Among other things, setting up another residence requires more money despite the household income probably remaining the same, and it also allows children to remain in their home while they adjust to their parents' divorce.
In the end, we divided it into two sides, one for his food, one for mine.Arguably, the most restrictive state is Arkansas, where no-fault divorce requires the couple to spend 18 months living at separate residences and not having sex before getting divorced.We have both tried to be adult about it, and neither of us is an emotional diva, so we decided from the outset there would be no rows in front of Aidan.But then the financial situation changed and house prices began to crash.By that point, we were desperate to separate, but simply could not afford to.But I can't pretend that being trapped in this emotionally wearing situation is easy.
Instead of a clean break with one of us moving out, it's been so protracted.
His social life is in London now, but he has to come home for financial reasons.
Jeremy is out of the house by 7am and sometimes not back until 8pm, so I feel as if all the burden of worry is left to me.
I've moved into the spare room, taking all my clothes with me, while Jeremy remains in what was our bedroom with all his clothes.
That was bad enough, but once that had been decided we realised there was the minefield of what we were going to do about everything else in the house: what was mine and what was his.
We decided to carry on living together for a short while so we could break the news very gently to Aidan.