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Deloris Rome Hudson’s experience is even more haunting: She remembers a popular girl who was dominated by her drop-out boyfriend, and then strangled.Of course, Rome Hudson mourns the victim, but she also thinks: “Here’s this guy, and I don’t know what would have helped him, but that’s one I wish I would have gotten to…” But most teen relationships are not violent.

Resources are available for educators who want to establish the importance of healthy relationships.“Educators should keep that more holistic view of violence in mind.” Digital abuse may be the most invisible to adults, but it is prevalent among the tech generation.“There is a lot of pressuring for nude pics, or pressure to give up your passwords for all of your social media.In fact, the threat of outing a partner can be a controlling tactic to trap a victim.“We tend to define abuse in terms of what we know from domestic violence among adults, but it does look different among teenagers,” says Jasmine Uribe, a manager at loveisrespect.Today’s educators need to be alert to the signs of teen dating abuse. Learning how to develop and maintain positive relationships is part of the social and emotional learning that keeps us all safe and happy—and leads to academic success.

And this month is the perfect time to get educated: February is Teen Dating Violence (DV) Awareness Month.

Consider that kiss by the lockers: Sign of affection or statement of ownership?

“In high school, all the time, there’d be boyfriends making their girlfriends skip class to make out in front of the lockers, or making them make out in front of their friends,” says Hunter.

“Females are just as clingy and abusive as men,” says Hunter.

Also important to keep in mind: same-sex relationships are not immune from abuse.

“You have this unique and powerful connection to students that not a lot of other adults do,” Colomé says.