Women to avoid dating
” I pause letting the information sink in while I sit down on my faded, tan couch.
I don’t do awkward silences well, so I ask the next question that pops into my mind.“So, why’d you stay with her so long in spite of all the crazy?You must walk on eggshells to keep the house from collapsing, so you end up meeting her needs while none of yours get met.This leads to bitterness, so when the cards finally collapse you’re the bad guy.In every healthy relationship I’ve had (including my wife), we spent time away from one another and engaged with our community of friends.Our lives didn’t revolve around each other, and we were much healthier for it.It didn’t just extend to women, but many young men as well.
The problem wasn’t that the world was out to get them.
“She broke into your home, has threatened ”“Yeah,” my old roommate mutters sheepishly, “You were right about that military/crazy thing.”“Oh, this has nothing to with the military….” I say as I imagine a young woman with a vendetta breaking down a door and stealing my clothes.
“This chick just happens to be certifiably nuts.”There’s silence on the end of the other line.
Sadly most men these days don’t lead with gentleness, humility, and selflessness in their relationships, which is why there’s so much misogyny prevalent in today’s society.
Often times, a young woman will have been wounded by an immature young man and to protect herself will become General Patton.
So here are mine (and maybe yours) to help you identify some of the dating landmines you might be ignoring.